So today during recess, I checked my school voicemail. It was one of the Ethiopian program coordinators from CHI telling us our referral papers were ready! I called her back and she was excited to hear from me and told me I’d have an email with the referral paperwork in my email today and that we’d receive the original copy via mail in a few days!
This means we have our OFFICIAL referral for the boys! Upon reading the referral, we learned a great deal more about the boys than we had previously been told, but it’s a good thing to know. We learned that their mother has passed away (most likely from child birth/child birth complications) and that their father is still alive and that they have older siblings (we don’t know their names, gender, or ages though). We hope that there is a chance we could maybe meet the dad and siblings when we travel, but who knows!
We also learned that they have real African names. So, we will use their real names (first and last) as their middle names and keep Elijah and Jonah as their first names. We also found out that Elijah is about 7 lbs. 9 oz and Jonah is about 9 lbs. We are glad they are growing, but Elijah still is underweight…so please pray for him to continue growing. It’s weird to think that they are about 3 months old and that Elijah weighs about what Evan weighed when he was born.
Their birthday is July 15th! They are healthy and described as sociable (both of them), and funny (Jonah). They have good relationships with their caregivers. They tested negative for Hep B and HIV and they have O positive blood, like me! The only issue was that Elijah has mild congenital chest stridors, which means that when a stethoscope is put on his chest, the doctor can hear noises, much like wheezing sounds. They say it’s mild and that he does not need to be treated for this. Please pray that he heals and outgrows this.
It was exciting to learn more and to have this day finally come! Where do we go from here you say? Well, our dossier (the boat load of paperwork) is done. We are just waiting on our I-171H approval from US customs and immigration (Milwaukee office). Once we get this approval in the mail, we can send our dossier to Washington to be authenticated. It then goes to CHI and then to Ethiopia to be translated and scrutinized. They then assign you a court date, which allows the children to be ours legally. You usually travel 2-6 weeks after the court date (as long as you passed court) to pick the children up and bring them home. We are still shooting for December-February, but really thinking it would be great to pick them up over our 2 week Christmas break…what a holiday blessing that would be! We’ll see. Soon (once our dossier gets mailed) we will be playing the waiting game and it is no longer in our hands. Pray for a quick process.
For the time being, we need to focus on raising money for the travel expenses because now that we have a referral, we have to pay CHI the final fee and it is going to almost completely drain our funds. So, if you could help us out by doing one or a few of the following, that would be great!
*Buy tickets from us for our ”Bowling to Bring Home Elijah and Jonah” fundraiser. This will be Saturday, November 29th at Delavan Lanes. You get 3 games of bowling and shoes for $10 ($7 of this goes towards our adoption). You can bowl anytime between noon and 9 p.m. We will also have a silent auction and a quilt raffle.
*Prepare a basket for our silent auction or donate an item/gift card/certificate.
*Help us go to local businesses in our area or yours (we have a letter and flyer for you to give out if you’d like to help us with this…just let us know) to get donated items/certificates for our silent auction.
Thank you for your continued support, prayers, and love. It is all falling into place…what a joyous day!